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    After a devastating breakup, what will be your coping mechanisms? Would you rather eat excessively or drink excessively?
    Because if you'd ask me, I'd usually do both simultaneously so I won't either of those excessively.

  • #2
    Does crying excessively counts? Lol, kidding! I'd rather go out and drink with my friends, but not too much.

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    • LollySucker
      LollySucker commented
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      I thought you were serious with the crying excessively thing. lol. But, seriously, would you cry a bit for that lost lover?

  • #3
    I would eat a lot. Nothing beats good food. I think that eating a lot is better than drinking a lot. What good would alcohol bring to me?

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    • BackRubSlut
      BackRubSlut commented
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      But aren't you afraid of getting fat? Excessive eating will lead you to weight gain or are you the type that doesn't get fat easily?

  • #4
    Originally posted by Thighler View Post
    After a devastating breakup, what will be your coping mechanisms? Would you rather eat excessively or drink excessively?
    Because if you'd ask me, I'd usually do both simultaneously so I won't either of those excessively.
    I'd always drink excessively, why? Nothing heals a broken heart with an iced cold beer with good friends. I might even find myself a one night stand in those bars, just a thought of it now really makes me happy.

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    • CockednLoaded
      CockednLoaded commented
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      Lol. I always look forward for those one night stands. The only gripe that I have is that a drunk sex is not that great.

  • #5
    Devastating breakup? I had few breakups already but none of those was devastating. lol. Alright, if ever the breakup was devastating, then I would just eat it out excessively. I could not drink much as that might affect my health.

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    • IncredibleBulge
      IncredibleBulge commented
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      Eat out and indulge in your comfort foods, they will surely make you feel better even just for a little while.

  • #6
    After a breakup whether it is devastating or not, I usually get myself a drink. Well, not a single drink but a few drinks. It's my way of contemplating about what happened. But I don't usually get drunk. A few drinks are already fine with me.

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    • SeanDoe
      SeanDoe commented
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      Do you usually drink with your friends? Or do you drink alone? Because I usually drink alone in the comfort of my home if I don't have plans of getting wasted, but there's something about me that I'd love to do, and that is going out drinking with friends and getting myself drunk.

  • #7
    I do both! Well not simultaneously. My routine goes this way, on the day of breakup, I drink as much as I can. The next day, after I get my hangover cured, I'll find a restaurant that I like and order more food that I usually order.

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    • BaconLover
      BaconLover commented
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      Wow, you must be living the dream after the break-up! Drinking and eating? I wish I can do those things too, but sometimes I'd just stay in bed and cry myself a waterfall.

  • #8
    I prefer eating rather than drinking. Because when I drink, I tend to do some drunk texts so I might drunk text my ex and say that I want him back. That will only make me look desperate and I don't want that.

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    • JayKay
      JayKay commented
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      That means that you still like your ex. Of course, it is not easy to just forget someone that you had loved.

  • #9
    Could I deviate and say have sex excessively? Yeah. I could do some hookups with various men and ask them to have sex with me. It would be a temporary relief from the pain of a breakup.

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    • BigBrony
      BigBrony commented
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      You can have sex with different guys as your coping mechanisms but excessively? Wow! You've got a lot of stamina to have multiple hookups there.

  • #10
    I guess I'll drink excessively and party hard. I'll enjoy with what I'm doing and let myself loosen up. In that way, I might find someone to replace my ex.

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    • ButtThrust
      ButtThrust commented
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      Replace him immediately? Don't you want to give your time to heal first? That's what I'll do if I were you.

  • #11
    I won't do any of that because I think that's a sign of self-destruction. Anyway, after a breakup, I'll treat and spoil myself. Because I know that that is what i deserve.

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    • #12
      I would eat excessively it really is comforting but I see that it had a downside
      of making me fat so I try to make myself busy, be productive and make myself
      better I'm already broken why break myself any further

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      • #13
        none of the above when I'm suffering from a heartbreak what I do is I spend
        all the energy on running, exercising or working out at the gym being busy takes
        my mind of things, it's sad but it works

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