Saying I Love You

[Proxie]

When you just entered a new relationship, how long does it usually take before you tell that person that you love them? Are you the type who tells them that immediately or it will take you a few weeks or months before you tell those words to them?

[Cyrax]

Most of the time it is my partner who says it first since I often make sure that when I say it, I really mean it already and not just some sweet nothing that people would often say.

[Stanlee]

For me, it usually takes me a month within dating before I tell him that I love him.

[DirtMcGirth]

Are there any instances when its been a month and you still don't feel saying those words?

[Proxie]

Stanlee That sounds better. Others say I love you even if they did not have a date first.

[ButtThrust]

I often let my partner be the first one to say those words.

[ButtThrust]

Jilter I will force him to say it if I think that he is just shy.

[Jilter]

You are so brave then, he would be lucky if you will be the one who said first. ButtThrust

[Proxie]

ButtThrust how do you force someone to say it? I will not do that., it might backfire on me and instead of hearing an I love you, I will hear. I do not love you. hahaha

[CUM EATER]

[CutieShank]

Which one of you said it first? Is it you or your partner?

[CUM EATER]

I was the first one to say it, CutieShank! After about three months.

I'm the one who is a bit more at ease with 'emotional stuff' in our relationship.

My partner is a slightly older than me, and, like many men of his generation, he wasn't very good at revealing his softer side!. We are British, after all ? !! Stiff upper lip and all that macho nonsense...


However, I have gradually re-educated him! ? and now he tells me (and shows me) how much he loves me at every opportunity.

Our relationship is rock solid! I can hardly believe how lucky I am.

[StiffySteve]

If I'm deeply in love and I really meant it then it will only be within a second that I will tell that I love him.

[Boosh]

And how many times have you actually done that? Saying I love you to him immediately?

[Proxie]

Are you not gonna wait the right time to say those words? StiffySteve

[BigBrony]

I want it to be always dramatic before I say it like when we both are facing each other and being emotional.

[BigBrony]

I know right! IncredibleBulge and that would be romantic,lol.

[IncredibleBulge]

BigBrony I bet that you like romantic stuff.

[BigBrony]

IncredibleBulge Yeah, cuz I am hopeless romantic,lmao.

[Conan]

Within a few weeks will do and I'm sure we already developed an intimate relationship that will make me want to say "I love you".

[Conan]

ThaThrist I don't know if I am the one who always say it first but I know that I say it when I wanna say it.

[ThaThrist]

Conan Do you guys usually being intimate?

[Proxie]

same here! a few weeks or a month will do. Conan

[Looking4U]

I tell him immediately since I want to make him feel that I love him so he will be in the mood to have sex with me.

[CUM EATER]

Don't you think that's rather dishonest, unkind and selfish?

You obviously don't really mean what you are saying to him.

It's very disrespectful to play with someone's emotions in that way, just because you want him to agree to have sex with you.

[Looking4U]

CUM EATER Love can be selfish dude.

[Cloud69]

I can't believe that someone will take him a month or two before he says those words. For me whenever I feel saying it I always tell him how much I love him.

[BaconLover]

I'm guessing that it usually takes you days before you say those words to the guy that you're dating?